Keep your first date simple

Choose a comfortable setting

A café, a daytime exhibition or a busy public park with a nearby café can make it easy to keep a first meeting short. Pick somewhere you know and can reach independently.

Agree the basics

Set a time and place together. A clear plan reduces last-minute confusion. Keep expectations modest: the aim is to see whether you enjoy talking in person.

Leave room to leave

Arrange your own travel and let someone you trust know your plan. You can end a date whenever you want. You do not owe anyone a longer meeting or a second date.

Follow up honestly

If you enjoyed the date, a short message saying so is enough. If you do not want to meet again, be kind and clear. You do not need an elaborate explanation.